If You Think Your Spouse Might Be Cheating,Here's How To Find Out

By Phil Burnett

If you think there is a chance that your spouse might be cheating on you, I want to show you a quick and easy way to find out for sure. Dealing with this type of suspicion can grate on your nerves - you deserve to know the truth about whether or not your partner is being faithful.

Private investigators are getting more and more clients that are hiring them to spy on their spouse's and find out if they are cheating. Trust me - you don't have to go to such lengths to get the truth! We always recommend using the following tactic as your first step towards finding out whether or not your partner is cheating.

This method is quick, incredibly simple and will barely cost you a dime. There are only three steps you need to follow so let's go over each of them one-by-one.

Step #1 - How To Catch A Cheating Spouse

Ready to play detective?!? In this first step you are going to need to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for around 15 minutes. Make sure you have enough time to look at it without worrying about getting "caught".

Pick your time wisely! Maybe your spouse just went out to the store or went to work without their phone. You just need to make sure you have about 15 minutes to "borrow" their phone.

When you have their phone you are going to write down every phone number that appears on both their incoming and outgoing call history lists. Most phones will keep track of the last 100 calls - write them all down.

While you are doing this you can leave off any phone number that you recognize for sure off your list. You just need to note down every phone number that doesn't ring a bell.

When you are done, put the phone back and move on to the next step.

Step #2 - How To Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating

Now it's time to find out exactly who your spouse has been chatting with. There's a way that you can find out someone's full name, address and background information by having nothing but their phone number.

There are companies that specialize in gathering phone records and building databases that have information on the owner of any phone number (including cell phones and unlisted numbers). Different people including detective agencies and law enforcement will then use their databases to run a search on various phone numbers.

This type of service is available online to the general public. It's called a "reverse phone search" and will instantly how you the person's name and details right on your computer screen.

We included a link at the bottom of this article so that you can try a free sample search to see how it works. Have a try and bookmark the page if you don't have your list with you.

There is a fee for using this type of service, but it isn't expensive. Make sure you look for a company that offers unlimited searches for a one-time only fee. Your list will most likely have more than one or two phone numbers so you don't want to have to pay for each individual search you use.

Run down your entire list and conduct a search on each phone number. Make sure to write down the information you find out about each one on the same piece of paper.

Once you are done this step, you can move on to the last step.

Step #3 - How To Find Out If Your Spouse Is Cheating

Now you have a list of all the people that your partner has been chatting with (and how often). This information makes it easy to spot any suspicious patterns about whether or not your spouse is cheating.

Pay attention to the names that you see on your list. There are many times that people will suspect that their spouse is seeing someone else in particular - if this fits your situation, does that person's name show up?

Once you know exactly who your spouse has been talking to it's incredibly easy to spot if anything "fishy" is going on. This is a quick and easy way for you to find out if your spouse is cheating and whether you are with a person who is treated you with the respect you deserve.

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